“I’m a freshman, Dad,” said my son. “Yup, he’s fresh meat!” replied my daughter. Their exchange reminded me of how I used to talk with my sisters. We teased each other out of love. After my son filled his hair with gel and my daughter got dressed, they packed their book bags, and we climbed into the car. On the ride to school, I tried to remember, but forgot what my parents had said to me on my first day of high school. “Surround yourself with positive people, be respectful t