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Gift of Time
All she wanted for her birthday was my undivided attention. Between moving logistics, writing deadlines, training blocks, and parenting responsibilities, my calendar is full. But I had to put everything aside and gift her my presence as this year’s present. My wife turned older and became more beautiful this week. To celebrate, we had lunch at her favorite restaurant and walked around a nearby mall. It wasn’t much, but it’s what she wanted. The time together is what we needed
Vernon C. Lindsay, PhD
Aug 212 min read


Love Change
Minutes before my family left for vacation, we stopped in one of the airport’s electronic stores. My youngest wanted a pair of headphones. While he browsed the overpriced gadgets, a salesperson talked to me. He asked, “Where you headed?” “Chicago,” I replied. “Is that home for you?” “Um, something like that. We were born there but…” “Oh, I get it. You’ve moved away, and it no longer feels like home.” The salesperson finished my sentence. I smiled and nodded as my son asked a
Vernon C. Lindsay, PhD
Aug 15, 20253 min read


Dear Gabi,
Stop tsking your teeth, sighing, or doing whatever else you do when annoyed. I know you didn’t ask for this birthday letter, but here it...
Vernon C. Lindsay, PhD
Aug 22, 20242 min read


Happy or Married?
One day, a man left home for his job as a census taker. He walked to the bus stop with a stack of population surveys tucked in his bag. ...
Vernon C. Lindsay, PhD
Dec 29, 20233 min read


Love Questions
How do you love? Who and What do you love? Why do you love? Did you love? Answering these questions can send us in a loop. They...
Vernon C. Lindsay, PhD
Feb 17, 20233 min read


Samuels Today, You Tomorrow
I did something that I don’t like to do first thing in the morning. Instead of grabbing my journal, I reached for the phone and checked...
Vernon C. Lindsay, PhD
May 13, 20223 min read


Three Tips for 2020 Marriage Success
Tuesday, I celebrated my tenth wedding anniversary. In Malcolm Gladwell’s book Outliers, he discusses Simon and Chase’s 10,000 hours...

Vernon C. Lindsay, PhD
Jan 3, 20203 min read
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